It sounds cliche, and might even be a little vanilla for this sub. But I think I'm coming to realize why. I'm truly a switch at heart (and tend to lean a little more submissive). A teasing, bratty one at that. And when I'm between her legs it's the one position where I can exercise both my submissive and dominant personalities simultaneously.

For the submissive side - I mean what gets more submissive than having someone's mouth on your dick or clit? It's like a god being served grapes. She can control my pace and tongue with her hands on my head, or even wrap her legs around me so I can't escape. It's dedicated focus to her worship and pleasure, nothing for me (other than the joy from the act itself). It's relaxing to just ask "what do you want from me" and be calmly commanded. It allows me to relax and obey not having to worry about making too many decisions. Sometimes I like being told what to do and just making someone feel good.

At the same time I can be in complete control. This is where I can tease her more than any other position and make her putty in my hands mouth. Never starting right at the clit, I love to see her squirm, moving my gentle tongue all around and over her legs. Soft kisses right next to her pussy, but never on it. Maybe grazing her clit with my tongue or breath, but never 'recognizing' it. Nothing turns me on more than a whimpering "please" as she has a hand on the back of my head, trying so hard to get my mouth down onto her. I control the pace and tempo. I control what she feels. And when I hit ~ that ~ spot, she's really mine. When she comes from my mouth she has zero control of her body. The twitches and spasms, the occasional yelp, her legs wrapping tight around me, body arching. Gone to a different place. Damn that gets me so hard. And sometimes when it gets too intense and she has to push me off... honestly idk which personality side that is

She's just a puddle of mush and needs a second to recoup just to come back down to earth. And I did that to her, and for her. I was the one that helped her out, that made her happy, and I love to be the one to provide that service. And at the same time I know that she'll be thinking about it for days to come anticipating the next time I can get her off.