A couple of days ago I [26M] talked about wanting to go to a bar in my hometown that is known for its cougar population. It's also the place that a few years ago an older woman sucked me off in the bathroom. I was planning on heading there Friday night but actually ended up going last night (Saturday) instead, hence the later update.

So anyway, last night me and a couple friends of mine started the night at the pub as planned. They didn't know I wanted to go to the cougar bar, I planned on suggesting it after a couple of drinks so it seemed more spontaneous and fun, when in reality it's all I'd been thinking of all day. We quickly went through two or three pints, catching up on what we'd been doing since we last saw each other. The usual stuff. When it finally came time to move on I managed to casually mention this bar, which is a bit of a running joke between my friends. It honestly didn't take as much convincing as I thought it might and we decided to head over as our final stop for the night.

Another bit of context might be required about this bar. There's a bit of a food chain, for lack of a better description. The bar is very cheap, which attracts younger guys such as myself. We're then followed by the cougars who're looking for young meat. These cougars however, are often followed by older, dare I say more age appropriate, men. These guys are often a real pain and sadly sometimes get a bit rough with other men in an attempt to impress.

So here's where the night picks up. We get in there and it's quite busy since it's Saturday. I go to the bar to get a round in for the boys as they go to have a dance on the floor. It feels very cliche writing it now, but while I was ordering, I caught a womans eye in the queue. This cougar was it. Probably around 5'4", curly brunette hair and had a great set of tits squeezed into a very short dress. We locked eyes. She beckened me over. I love the confidence of a woman who knows what she wants.

Of course I went over, introduced myself, offered her a drink which she accepted. We flirted at the bar a bit and she said she was out with some other but didn't know where they'd gone. At this point I had my hand on her thigh, just below the bottom of her dress. I asked if she wanted to dance and so she came to the floor with me.

When we went back to the floor she grinded up against me in front of my friends. Wherever I put my hands she didn't seem to care. I became bolder. She seemed to enjoy all the attention I was giving her body, without caring who saw what we were doing. As my friends started dancing with another group she turned to me and said something along the lines of "the real fun is under the dress". I didn't need any further invitation, I slid my hands under her little black dress and groped around for her knickers, I didn't find any. When she realised I'd found her secret she winked at me and suggested we get out of here.

Sadly this is where the story kind of ends. Almost immediately after this a man approaches her and asks her to leave with him. I then see them exchange a few words, in an argumentative way. I couldn't hear what they were saying exactly because of the music. She returns to me as the man walks towards the exit. She says that was her husband who'd finally found her, he was furious that she'd taken off her ring while he was gone. She'd apparently claimed her fingers were swelling in the heat. I was shocked to say the least. Before she left she asked for my number which I honestly couldn't give to her fast enough in my tipsy, horny state. She left and I stayed, dancing and drinking with my friends for another hour or so before heading home.

I have her number now as we've exchanged a few messages today. Her being taken and perhaps unhappy in her marriage makes me want to pursue her further. What do I do Reddit?

Ps. Sorry for the long post that ends in kinda blue balls lol I'm equally frustrated right now.