(21f) for a long time, before losing my virginity, I was afraid of having sex, for many reasons. Looking back, I know now I just made a bunch of excuses because none of the people I hooked up with felt like the right ones to be my first. I still wanted to cum, so I had to get creative.

With my ex, whom I didn’t lose my v to, I had years worth of experience getting myself off by myself, so what I would do is while making out, i would sit on top of him and start riding him with our clothes on. Well not all of our clothes, I usually let him take of my top and my bra so he could get hornier watching my tits bounce as I moved. That way I could feel the pressure of his hard cock against my clit, and moving my hips back and forth while rubbing myself against him made me cum a lot of times, without needing any type of penetration. It was really hot, but now that I’m on the other side I’m thankful I don’t have to stop at riding with clothes on to have fun.