I am an intelligent, confident and experienced Dom searching for a slave with whom I can plunge the depths of BDSM.  Communication and trust are vital to me, ensuring a safe and consensual journey for both of us

I am in a relationship and I'm not looking to change it.  I understand if you don't wish to read any further.  There are worse things you can judge me for.

So yes, I'm seeking the holy grail, ark of the covenant and the lost sankara stones.  But not a crystal skull, that's just ridiculous.

I'm around North East London and Essex.  Due to the nature of what we do I'm looking for something long term.  I have a couple of decades of experience.

I do offer a psychological approach (not professional) and a view from the philosophy of Sung, De'Sade and Torquemada.

I'm 45, 6ft and just over 95kg, although I'm not unfit.  I'd describe my looks somewhere between a poor oil painting and a Picasso.  My sense of humour falls into the quirky, dark, macabre category.