So, my partner and I have been together for going on 6 years now. Things have always been great between us—good communication, great sex life, all that. But I’ve gotta admit, I’d always been a bit self-conscious about my size. I’m 4.5 inches hard, which, yeah, I know it’s not huge, but it’s always been something in the back of my mind, even though she never made it a big deal.

That was until this one night early in our relationship when everything kinda shifted. We were at a party—just a chill gathering with friends, nothing crazy. But there were a few guys there who my partner had dated before we got together. One of them was Matt, who I'd heard through the grapevine was huge just BTW. We’ve all hung out before, and it was never an issue, but that night, we ended up in a conversation about old relationships (you know how things go after a few drinks). And out of nowhere, one of the girls brought up an old hookup story with a guy who had a huge dick, and everyone started talking about size.

I was trying to play it cool, but man, I felt like I was shrinking by the second. And then Matt—being the cocky guy he is—made this casual comment about how "some guys just have it easier in that department." I don’t think he was trying to throw shade, but I caught my partner giving me this look. It wasn’t a mean look, but more like a ‘we both know you’re not packing that kind of heat’ look. I don’t think anyone else noticed, but I couldn’t shake it.

After the party, we were lying in bed, and it just hit me. I brought it up—like, full-on insecure moment—and asked her if she ever missed being with someone bigger. She hesitated, and that hesitation cut deep. She said something like, "It’s not about size, but yeah, sometimes it’s fun to feel that difference." She didn’t mean it to hurt me, but it did. For the first time, I realized that size actually mattered to her, even if it wasn’t everything.

That led to a few awkward weeks. Every time we had sex, I felt like I wasn’t enough, like I couldn’t satisfy her the way a guy like Matt could. It was messing with my head big time. I even found myself comparing myself to other guys she’d been with. There was also this dude named Ryan, another ex, who was more in the middle—about 6.5 inches—but apparently, he had stamina for days. We’d run into him a couple of times, and I knew they’d stayed friendly. My brain kept going back to these guys, like, what did they have that I didn’t?

But here’s where things took a turn. One night, I guess out of frustration, she asked me what was going on. I told her everything—how I’d been feeling less than, how I kept comparing myself to Matt, Ryan, all of it. She listened and then, out of nowhere, she said, "Why don’t we just play with it?"

At first, I didn’t get it. But then she started teasing me, calling me out on my size in this playful way. It felt humiliating, but also... I dunno, exciting? It was like all the insecurity I’d been feeling suddenly had an outlet. She teased me about how small I was compared to Matt, how I could never satisfy her like Ryan did, but the way she said it—mixed with the power dynamic—flipped something in my brain.

That night, we had some of the hottest sex we’d ever had. She got super dominant, leaning into my size, making me submit to her because of it. It was like my worst fear turned into this massive turn-on. The teasing, the humiliation, everything just clicked.

After that, we started experimenting with it more. She’d bring up guys like Matt during sex, comparing me to them, making me feel small and submissive. We even started fantasizing about other guys with bigger dicks—like, what it’d be like if they joined us. It was like sizeplay unlocked this whole new level of excitement for us.

Now, we’re fully into it. She loves teasing me about my size, and I love the dynamic it creates. And the best part? It’s made our relationship even stronger. What started as an insecurity has turned into this insanely hot kink that we both enjoy.

So yeah, that’s how my size became an issue and led us down the road to sizeplay. Funny how things work out sometimes, huh?