44m. My wife is 41f. Her younger sister is 35f.

I’ve talked on here a lot about being in love with my wife’s younger sister 35f, and how her husband is verbally abusive and controlling…. just found out an hour ago that it’s physical…. he has put her in a chokehold, he has spit on her and he threw a hammer at her car when he thought she was trying to leave she denies that this happened recently and she doesn’t know I know but I am furious my blood is boiling…. Right now, sexual fantasies are taking a back seat… I really love this woman and the man who should love her more than I do is harming her… although she won’t admit he’s still doing it…. and I want to kill hum right now

I know I can never be with her, which hurts, so I want her to be with somebody who looks at her the way I do, because loving her means I don’t want her to be unhappy just because I can’t have her… but abuse is a whole other level of that.

For a while now, my great pain has been being deeply in love with a woman I could never have and not even being able to tell anyone.

Now my even greater pain is being deeply in love with a woman I can’t have secretly and knowing that the man who should love her more than me has been harming her.

I’m a wreck. Not just because of how I secretly feel about her.