Why I believe it’s so difficult for sissies to meet men these days…

Ok, this is a rant, and of course it’s based on my own personal experiences so I can’t say that it is a physical law, and I’m certain it won’t apply to everyone, but in my view, men just don’t seem to have the wherewithal to grasp the sensibilities of meeting us gurls online. Men need to be more transparent in their wants and desires, more honest and respectful. I believe it would lead to longer and more satisfying relationships by building trust. So, here’s a small list of pet peeves I have…

One, if you’re going to meet us gurls, at least have the courtesy to make yourselves presentable. Put on some cologne, shower and wear something nice. Don’t smell like you’ve just worked 8 hours installing an irrigation system in your backyard, or worse, like you just ate a bulb of garlic. We gurls go through the trouble of putting on makeup, perfume, doing our nails and wearing something alluring for the sake of being attractive to men. Wouldn’t it be nice to reciprocate the effort? If you’re married or have a girlfriend, did you meet your them looking and smelling like a pig, or did you dress to impress? I would guess you did the latter.

Two, have a picture OF YOUR FACE ready if we ask for it. Don’t use the lame excuse of “oh, someone I know might see it” and then simply send a picture of your throbbing member or your abs. Us gurls have people we know as well who might see it, yet we put it our faces out there in plain view. If anyone is taking a big risk, it’s us. We’re the vulnerable ones, not you.

Three, sissies are expected to simply submit to a man’s every whim, no questions asked. I get it, it’s part of being a sissy. BUT we also have to live in the town Realville, so don’t ghost us when we ask for you to wear protection for sexual activities, including oral, especially if it’s a first meet. We don’t know where you’ve been and who you’ve been with. Show us some respect, caring and concern and we will be more than happy to be that submissive gurl you’re looking for.

Four, if we post an ad saying that we are looking for someone in a specific geographic area, please don’t waste our time if you’re not close by. Case in point, an ad that say “looking for men in North Jersey,” shouldn’t get a reply from someone who lives in South or Central Jersey. Some of us gurls have girlfriends or wives that are not aware of our feminine side, so we can’t take hours out of our day to have meets.

Lastly, treat us like human beings first, and then secondly like the females we want to be. A nice compliment goes a long way in making us feel wanted and appreciated. I think you’ll find that once you get us into the female mindset with a few nice words, we will do almost anything you ask.

Post script:

As my father once told me, “It takes two to tango.” So, yes, us gurls can sometimes be to blame, too. For instance, a newbie might get cold feet and bail on a meeting at the last minute. This happens quite often and can leave the man frustrated. But here’s my suggestion…if men are respectful, appreciative and make the effort to be transparent, kind and considerate, this will not happen. A gurl wants to feel safe first and foremost. If she doesn’t, she’ll call it off. So, state what your goals are and what you expect to happen during the meet. And make the effort to meet the gurl halfway on any requests that she has. I think you’ll find the efforts will lead to a longer lasting relationship.