I just bought the zero tolerance "the rocker" from a local sex shop. This is my first experience with a prostate massager. I can hit my p spot with my fingers, but the angle kinda hurts my wrist. Also, I have yet to cum from anal. I was hoping that this you would fix both things. Sadly, it only fixed one. It works great! I was leaking through my cage and I felt amazing. The vibrations are decently strong and it's relatively quiet. I just put on done music at moderate volume and I'm positive my roommates couldn't hear me or it. The remote is handy, but I wish the remote was rechargeable. The massager is, just not the remote. I had a few issues with it staying so the way in. It like to slip out so only just the head is inside me. I solved this by wearing a cute pair of briefs instead of a thong. I think this will be my new warm up toy.