So I've been dressing for awhile now. My wife and I have been together for 4 years, she's known that I dress from the start. She just always said she's ok if I do it, just not around her. Anyways, several months ago we were going through some troubles, and long story short, she went into a 30 day inpatient program. During that time, with her knowing, I continued to dress, but I also went out to the local gay bar dressed. I had a wonderful time. Now she's home and I asked her if she would go with me. After much discussion, she's going to do it. She's going to see me dressed for the first time, and we will go out! She has her reservations, she doesn't know how she will react to seeing me fem, and she's very nervous. I am too. So, how can I make this as comfortable to her as possible so that she has a good time? I thought about saying "just think of it as a Halloween costume." Any help is appreciated!