Please put the *quote* first and then put your name, your age, where you live, as well as what you think we have in common. I *WILL NOT* respond to “hey,” “hi,” “how are you, ” etc. Put some effort into your message. I have Snapchat, Instagram, Facebook, and Discord, as I plan on taking our conversation off Reddit eventually.

*About Me*

What’s up? 😁 I'm Becca. ✌️🏾👋🏾 I'm a black, non-binary 28-year-old woman. My height is 5’3”. My appearance and clothing style is androgynous. I have short-cropped hair (it's easier to take care of in the summer). Oh, and I'm fully vaccinated! 🙌🏾

I'm an LGBTQ rights advocate, social justice warrior (Black Lives Matter, helping find murdered and missing indigenous women, stopping illegal drilling on indigenous land, against the deportation of immigrants, legal or illegal, etc.), and a disability rights advocate.

I'm hella loyal (cheating is such a waste of time and emotional energy), have a Master's degree in sarcasm, am emotionally mature, and very family-oriented. I'm very easy-going and open-minded. I'm a hopeless romantic, so be prepared for cute, sappy quotes and memes! I also love cuddling, holding hands, and other cute coupley stuff. I'm also a gamer (League of Legends, Call of Duty: Mobile, Ark: Survival Evolved, etc.). I've always wanted to play WoW with someone, but so far, I haven't had any luck. Maybe you could be my Player 2? 😉🤗

I currently work as a Personal Care Attendant, but my dream job is opening my own martial arts studio/boxing gym for underprivileged and at-risk kids. Martial arts is one of the many things I'm passionate about. I'm currently a 2nd dan in taekwondo. I'm a Cancer and an INFP. I get along exceptionally well with ENFPs, ENFJs, ENTJs, and moderately well with ENTPs, INTJs, INTPs, INFJs, INFPs, ESFJs, ISFPs, and ESTJs; Tauruses, fellow Cancers, Virgos, Scorpios, Capricorns, and Pisces! My taste in music varies between heavy metal, hip-hop, Australian/UK drill, Australian rap, instrumental, and acapella. Oh, and musicals! So get ready for impromptu karaoke without the crowds of strange people. Also, I can't sing. 😂😅

*Who I’m Looking For*

I'm attracted to Pacific Islander men, but I don't discriminate against people based on what race/ethnicity they are. I don't drink (alcoholism runs in my birth family, and I'm trying to break that vicious cycle), smoke, or use drugs. I hope that the person I'm dating is also like this, but it's not a dealbreaker. If you enjoy getting frequently drunk, don't message me. I'm okay if you're 420-friendly.

The man I’d like to get to know better should be *at least 25-35 years old, is at least 5’3” or taller, is an anime-lover, and a fantasy/fiction enthusiast (cosplays and conventions). He loves to travel and appreciates my socially awkward quirkiness and sense of humor. He wants to get married and have a big family someday (this is a *significant** dealbreaker if you don't want kids). He loves learning about the world around him and is excited to share his experiences with the woman in his life. He takes pride in building a solid emotional connection with the woman in his life and others around him. He also values physical intimacy with his woman (holding hands, cuddling, long hugs, and eventually, sex). He is faithful, respectful, passionate, family-oriented, marriage-minded, and hopeless romantic (see the fourth paragraph for examples or my previous posts on my Reddit page). If this sounds like you, please shoot your shot. 😉🧡

*Long-distance isn't an issue, as long as we plan on closing the gap.*

If you read this post in its’ entirety, and if the qualities mentioned above sound precisely like you (not gonna lie, I’d be shocked yet pleasantly surprised if I found someone who fits this exact description! 😳), please include the following quote in your first message *“When we hit our lowest point, we are open to the greatest change, ”* along with your name, age, and where you live. That way, I’ll know who’s serious about a long-term relationship. Bonus points if you know where this quote is from and who said it WITHOUT looking it up! 😉

*Guys with long hair, beards, tattoos, and accents are my kryptonite!!!🤤🤤*

Here’s what I look like. 😁🧡

*FULL DISCLOSURE: I have a disability (FAS or fetal alcohol syndrome). I’m happy to answer any questions you may have. If you think my disability will negatively impact having a relationship with me, don’t waste my time messaging me. Not everyone who has a disability falls into the same box or category. I know what I’m looking for in a relationship. I hope you can look past that and see the person I am inside.*