Merry Christmas to all loneliners. May the Force be with you.

Europe, 35 y.o.,168 sm/64 kg, pale skin, average building, long hair. No kids. No bad habits. Hobbies: reading, old movies, cultural events, museums, art galleries. Wish to travel and to live in sunny warm place in Europe, since all life pass in place, where days are short, nights are long and cold for most part of the year. I search for intelligent ma rriage minded man, interested in culture, who has time and romance for me.

Few people criticized me for giving such detailed points of what I search. I don't think, that people should live up to my expectations. Unexpectedly, those, who seemed to be very close to my description at first, gave the worst contact soon, we stopped talking in 5 minutes. Those, who were far from my description (not absolutely far, but didn't match in some points), were very pleasant people. This description is not strict demand in most of points. But definitely that can be red flags for some people, so I just save your time, in case if we are too different.

1. That one, who will want to ma rry me and will be able to meet in real life soon. Please, write in your FIRST message, when you are able to meet, if we match. Yes, it's silly to ask, when it's not clear if it's worthy to meet in general. But why to start conversation, if no opportunity to meet in foreseen future? Relationship with a big distances demand permanent efforts. 99% of all dialogs will end in hour/day/week. Maybe, in your current life situation relationship are not priority and you have no time to stay in touch. Then better even not to start.

2. You already live in Europe (exactly continental Europe) or plan to live there in soon future. With all respect for UK, its not a continental Europe. You can live anywhere now, if you don't mind living later in continental Europe. Exect country is for discussion.

3. You are officially single and don't have kids. No exceptions from this rule.

4. Expect, that I'm not from your country and you will have to travel. If you date only girls from your own country and can't travel, please, don't text.

5. I search for honest serious, quiet, logical, intelligent man, who has own place or plan to have it soon and can be a provider. Your age, appearance are not important. I prefer older person, who already knows, what he wants, who's love language is acts of service, not just words. Honesty is extremely important.

6. You shouldn't be pushy about having kid fast. If you want many kids, please, don't text. You are heterosexual, no exceptions. Sex is not a main thing in relationship for you. If it is, please, don't text.

7. You shouldn't demand to share expenses, because I wish to be stay at home wif e (though I have high education and work experience).

8. You can take my problems, as your own and will not run away, when know about my health problems, that demand surgical help (not plastic surgery, but more serious. Not in urgent condition, but if not to do anything, then can become urgent. All papers are on hands, ready to prove that need, when we meet, both in papers and in together visit to surgeon). Why do I mention this? Because 99% of men expect to build relationships with successful, healthy woman without any problems, who will never need any help from him, who will not be a burden in any way, who will stay young, sexually active and healthy forever. Most of men event don't have an idea to do anything real for her. They call that "to be with a girlfriend". So I just save your time in case, if you "want a girlfriend experience" without any responsibility.

9. You are able to make voice and video calls in teleg r1am, when I ask for it (of course, after work). If you can't for any reason, please, don't text. Unexpectedly, many people are not able to use that messenger for many reason and they tell, they don't have camera, microphone, phone or something else.

10. I am very introverted by nature and when like someone, this person becomes almost a center of my world, I don't need any other men, I'm one-man-woman. I wish someone, who is same, one-woman-men. I'm jealous and will not forgive lies and cheating, even very light things like flirting with others. I will not run after any man and will not beg for attention. That means: it is you, who is expected to develop conversation, to text first and to offer something. If you are more in passive position and expect me to pursure you, then please, don't text.

11. Often people hate those, who are different from them, simply just for fact of their existence. So I need someone, who will not be irritated with my existence and hobbies (mentioned it in the beginning). I don't expect you to share these hobbies, but I just ask to be ok with it. It's difficult to imagine, that someone, who is deeply in gaming or sport will accept me as I am. I think, that only cultural man will be able to accept me and not be irritated or bored near me. Good, when people can share hobby and interest. I can't share interest to gaming or sport watching, for a pity. Just not my thing. But I definitely will be ok with you doing your hobbies, even if I can't join.

12. Low efforts message will be ignored. Men, who expect me to run after them, to pursue them, who will not show any interest, who will keep silence for days, waiting for me to text them first, will be blocked.

If you feel something common and think, you can be that man, then, please, write me about yourself and let's start our conversation. Thanks for your attention.