I am proud mommy of my beautiful 4 year old girl. I am 25F and her dad is 31M. We use to have bad arguments. I use to sleep with him even though he is in relationships. I think a lot of our fights had to do with my anger and resentment towards him. Why couldn’t he treat me better? Why couldn’t he be with me? Now after working on myself for a few years. I no longer sleep with him. I see why I deserve someone who wants to be with me and my daughter. That I don’t fight with him. If he does something I don’t like I tell him calmly and explain why my feeling are hurt. He gets sometimes but sometimes not. We don’t go through court. He gives me child support which goes to paying my daughter’s daycare. I am the bigger person not picking fights and able to communicate with him. I just wish he see her more so I had a little bit more time on my hands but I don’t having my baby more often because then it’s mommy’s way most of the time. I like giving her structure. I am PROUD of the Mom I have become. I will continue to grow and improve.