If so, advice?? I'm a single mom of identical twin girls, who will be turning 2 next month. I'd rather not get too specific about the father situation. Nothing hostile, he just simply isn't in the picture. He and I heavily discussed it, and it was a mutual agreement. I have full custody, I don't get child support, didn't list him on the birth certificate, etc. Again, all things we talked about and agreed upon. Not everyone has agreed with it, especially about child support, but we do just fine and I believe that I made the right decisions (so please no negative comments). My daughters and I currently live with my family, and I'm starting a new job in a few days, which should allow me to save for our own place.

But god, it has been so hard lately. I love my girls, they're precious and very loving, but they're also already in their "terrible twos." Lots of mischief and attitude, suddenly super picky about food, fussing if I don't sit on the exact spot on the floor that they're pointing to, and they got my stubbornness lol. So how do y'all do it? Do you ever get to relax? And hacks for making routines easier?