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This week my oldest completed his pre-start school visits. His Dad didn't ring or acknowledge them. My oldest is disabled and I did all of his applications, all the school visits, all the resourcing requirements alone.
Yesterday my littlest guy walked all the way across the living room.
Today I started teaching my middle guy to ride his bike.
It is times like this when I really want to have an intimate partner to share these moments with.
Instead I have a coparent who couldn't even be bothered to visit the website of the school my kiddo will attend and tells me that I put too much detail about the kids in my one weekly email update and that he doesnt have time to read or respond to them.
Today I feel really really alone.
This man has given you a gift. You are able to be your full self and the best mother possible without him around. You won't have him to fight your parenting decisions. And you won't have him as a heavy influence on your children. Its difficult, I'm still just at the beginning of learning all this as my son is not even 18 months old. I'll have the same type of days you're feeling now, I already do. But they are temporary and they lesson as the months go by. We don't need them to cherish these memories. These memories are better without them. You're a badass, own it and enjoy every minute you have with your littles. I pity your ex, not your children. You've got this, momma 💜
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