I've been fighting my ex husband to get primary care of my three girls.

I have been attending councillors from a woman shelter due to the abuse I suffered.

I've been lenient, he's had 5 weekends tops since may and I haven't complained, I let him set the weekend for taking them, let him choose what happened for the holidays and now he want to switch the weeks.

As I tried to tell my lawyer, it's him using the kids against me... Dec 10 I went to the bar, he had people follow me and verbally attacked me, it's all saved in my phone. Now he knows when I can go out with my "friends" and wants to switch to their working week.

I've been able to hide my relationship from my girls because we do relationship stuff when their gone with him.

Now I'm going to have no choice but to introduce the children to the concept or I have to basically be alone and give up a social life? I'm pissed off my lawyer told me I don't have a leg to stand on for not switching weeks, I've begged their father for consistency and we haven't gotten it, I don't get what I'm doing wrong here