How do u feel about this? I know we are single moms by choice but if you start a serious relationship with someone while with your child, what do you think if they don’t want to be a father figure, even if they are seeing you and your child regularly?

I feel like this would be very sad if there’s some guy in my child’s life but the guy won’t love them as a father figure even after seeing them regularly.

Technically that would seem worse than an ex that I dont see often but loves a child because of the biological relationship. I would feel sad for my child because i would think they feel sad about why they are not special to some dude whos coming into our life all the time.

What are your thoughts? Do u think this kind of dating or relationship works?