Wife of 9 years together for 16 has started hooking up with her coworker.(with my blessing) as I always supported her in everything she's ever done. It turned south on me. After experiencing her first woman she fell in love after a month and left me and our 3 kids for with woman. She's still in our lives but I was a man child that worked hard. Don't really know how to cook much. Only did laundry on the military and occasionally too help out. I'm stepping up and learning but losing my other half and that support system has been really rough. Trying to figure out finances and shopping lists and school schedules ect. I know it'll take time and I'm managing but shit. You don't realize what you take for granted untill it's gone.