Hey guys so at the exchange with the ex I Used to play along and drag it out for 1-2 hours until my daughter was ready.

This got pretty time consuming if I'm being honest and I didn't see any real value in not setting boundaries. I.E. we can play with mom for 10 minutes but then we need to go.

She fusses when it's time and is mad for 5 minutes but then she moves on (basically same reaction as when we leave the park).

Mom still insists on doing the 1-2 hour exchanges when she comes to pick her up. No consistency which creates some issues.

My question however is am I wrong for not wanting to spend the 1-2 hours? I offer other family activities just so she can have the whole family together experience. However after work every Wednesday when I still have to get my son to soccer (son won't talk to ex,mom so he doesn't partake in the exchanges). Cook dinner basic life functions and I don't really want to spend that time at exs house. Am I causing trauma to my daughter? I don't think so but definitely want some objective opinions. For reference daughter is 2 going on 3.