Me and my ex broke up after being together for 3 years. I was hurt as I was the one dumped without much say in the manner. But after being on my own for a bit i am now starting to feel safe being single. Like I thought being single was the worse thing that could happen but it's actually not so bad. I can take naps, I take myself out for a few drinks and I read lots of literature. I'm can safely say that I am completely okay with never finding love again. There are worse things out there besides being single like having a man disrespect you or having him use your body just for sex. I'm feeling more free and emotionally stable I don't have to worry about the ups and downs of a relationship.

If I'd known being single was this peaceful I'd kick my abusive ex to the curb 3 years ago!