I am a lifestyle domme. Dominance is a part of who and how I am - it's always been a part of my wiring. Over the years, I've come to formalise my understanding through research and writing, of which this blog represents the highlights.

Who am I?

I’m a female dominant, living in London with my primary sub, with whom I have a 24/7 TPE dynamic.

I have always been dominant, it’s been a part of me for as long as I can remember. Thanks to the wonders of the Internet, I knew I was a domme from my mid-teens, and so I was never much interested in vanilla relationships. In fact, fun fact: I haven’t had one to date.

As a human

I am terminally curious sort of a person. I will generally read anything to hand and I am yet to be bored about someone talking about something they are passionate about.

I enjoy writing assorted things, including this very blog. I’m a creative sadist, but unfortunately my creativity isn’t limited to sadism. I pick up hobbies at more or less the rate the average person grabs at cushions while searching a couch for their phone.

Why a blog?

I tend to find that accuracy and structure goes a long way to establishing a clear conceptual understanding. 

I write a lot to organise my own thoughts anyway and over the years, I have come to formalise a lot of my understanding through research and writing. These blog represents the highlights of that process. 

Besides which, I think female perspectives on lifestyle D/s, particularly in regard to TPE are few and far in between and I wanted to add my own. 

What is this subreddit?

This is a place to update people whenever I post something new, as well as to collect my comments, posts and writing from across Reddit in one convenient place.