Service(s) Needed
real-time continuous texting (SMS or iMessage) or cam2cam for perhaps 20-30 min?

Specifics (requests, kinks/fetishes, time requirements, etc.):
It's important to me that we maintain a positive, emotionally supportive tone where you want me to succeed in finding love and believe I can overcome my issues (and care about me like you'd care about a friend), but at the same time helping me understand what the reality is of my sexual worth, through honest feedback that is informed by discussing those topics like my sexual history or exes or anatomy or anything else you think is relevant. Once we've uncovered some basic info and you have a better understanding of what I must be like in dating/relationships/sex, we can discuss all sorts of other stuff, examples would be things like if there's anything you think any of my exes lied to me about (we can use their names and look at a normal, clothed photo of them), stuff like their loyalty during our relationship (fun fact, I've never been cheated on) or how they felt about our sex life (at the time or even compared to their current one). Or we could visualize together the sex I had in the past with them and what it was like or a scene from one of their present sex lives and make me feel jealous and inferior. We could talk about coping strategies I could use for dating going forward or how I should approach dating or sex knowing based off the facts you learn about me and my sexual skills. Or you could just use any other methods or topics you find suitable that would help me feel small and help me truly _believe_ that I am not a catch when it comes to sex.

Really this could go many different directions, but my goal is to feel some shame that feels authentic and truly informed by my real life, as so much humiliation can feel generic or performative. I really value someone who can make me feel that they are being honest with me rather than just performing a role/reciting generic lines, so if you have very high standards for men sexually and physically and believe that most women lie to men about what their standards really are then I'm extra interested in you!

I'm really hoping to be emotionally vulnerable and for you to be both gentle and cruel and to respond soothingly if I am in the bargaining stage of grief but also to insert some real cutting humiliation when it comes to unavoidable truths of my inadequacies.

JOI might be good as part of this but I don't want to be allowed to cum until the end and I can sometimes struggle not to cum pretty fast so I might need your understanding and help edging with that.

Budget: negotiable (and I'd prefer if you make losers pay more for each of their inadequacies) I've never done this so I really don't know normal rates for online text or video chat (closest I've done is lap dances at a strip club). Probably like $25-100 depending on service offered but please let me know what you think.

Type of Seller I'm Looking For (age, race, dom/sub, body type, etc.):
I am attracted to most body types and all races, if there's anything unique about you (piercings, underarm hair, strong arches to your feet, hair style) let me know as I like uniqueness, I think your ability to authentically communicate to me many many extremely high standards that most men fail to meet is most important here, so if you don't believe in body shaming, or believe that everyone is someone's type then maybe you're not a good fit, as I want someone who believes in stereotypes about men's physical standards for example and can honestly and confidently inform me about them. And convince me that these things are really really important universally amongst all types of straight and bi women.

Preferred Payment Method: I guess I'm flexible, venmo, zelle, apple pay. If you have different prices for different clients and charge (very small please) additional charges for men who are sexually or physically inadequate I would really like to go through together and itemize together the extra add-on charges I owe you for the session (once again small increases please) maybe even based off what we uncover during the session! Should we screenshare and use a spreadsheet to take notes as we go? And then you can tell me that you'd have charged less if I was the type of guy that's more sexually desirable. But only if you think I owe this to you / deserve to pay more for being such a loser and can make me understand why.

Sorry this was so long! I'm definitely building up my excitement for this session. If it goes well we could even make it an ongoing thing and talk about my current romantic prospects/dating life in the future.

Verified users only please!