So, I apologize in advance if this comes across as "whiny." Feeling a bit frustrated at the moment.

In the last couple of months or so, I have been completely unable to connect with any female SW in my area. I'm within 50 or so miles of Los Angeles and you'd think wouid have a large market to select from.

I've contacted over 30 ads in the last 3 or 4 weeks. STG, PD, Tryst and the aggregator site Escort Babylon. Generally, no response whatever to my text. I mean totally ghosted. Or, the last dozen or so attempts, being asked for an gift card or deposit. Having been burned by the deposit several times in the past, I will not do that again. Cost me hundreds of dollars and serious blue balls to learn that lesson.

Even in response to an AD in STG that clearly said "no deposit required" the other person immediately asked me for half down by CashApp before giving me an address. Ahhh, nope. Blocked it immediately.

The exception are Chinese human trafficking orgs, they are always around. And I will not patronize those for any reason.

Funny enough, I've lost all interest in actually meeting anyone any more. Now I'm just trying to confirm if they are all scammers. Or is there some secret code that I'm not aware of to break through the bots and scammers.

So my actually serious question is, do female SW's actually exist anymore and do they actually meet clients? My personal experience and evidence is that no, they do not.

And, as background, I was a very frequent client for most of my life. I don't mind gifting for service and I love an SW who is into her work and loves giving pleasure. Hence my frustration,

Signed: Former Client.