About 2 years ago, I found a wonderful provider. She is really sweet to me,. We e-mail 6 or 7 times a day, she gives me extra time during our session and we refer to eatch other as lovers and friends.
Our sessions involve cuddling and talking, which i love. One time we had a 4-hour conversation during an overnight and it felt like 5 minutes. We have the same interests in art music and politics.
through we have great conversations here often see eatch other late at night(she's a night person, I'm not) Sometimes I feel tired and just want to turn my brain off and lay in her arms. I am looking for advice on how to tell her that i just want to cuddle without sounding like a jerk or killing the mood. She has a health issue that often keeps her home for weeks at a time so she says she really values our conversations because she doesn't talk to many people. I tend to be a person that people vent too and confide in .
have other clients found a way to politely tell providers that they're not up for deep conversations during a particular, session? Also, providers how do you react if a clint requests quiet during the session. Again I'm not asking for quiet because i want more bedroom activities but sometimes it's hard to be an engaging conversationlist at 1A.M.. i don't want to lose the way we connect but i would love to add quiet time as another option for us
thanks
Jacob