self-explanatory title. i remember when i was doing escort lite and 60% of the men i spoke to on Escortlite . com aka seekingarrangement would insist that we do a meet and greet where we'd be clear that nothing would happen.

such a waste of time from a sw POV unless it's heavily compensated bc no i don't wanna give you time and validation from a young woman for free.

At the same time i do get that sds want to ensure their sb looks the same irl. maybe a vibe check which also makes sense, but i'm curious if anyone has any insight beyond that? Like what's the real psychology behind these tricks and the meet and greet? I feel like there's a way to take this conversation further, but I'm just lacking insight.

and no I'm no longer a SB