Not sure if any of you have ever heard of Melissa Feebos but she is a former dominatrix that is now an American author and professor. I recommend her book "Girlhood", as it explains through her own personal stories, the challenges females face growing up in trying to protect their autonomy and their voices. In the earlier parts of the book, she talks about how becoming a dominatrix was not something she became for pleasure, but something she became to reclaim parts of her identity, innocence, and autonomy that had been robbed from her when she was young. To finally be able to say "No" or "You can't have me or my body" instead of acquiescing or saying nothing.

If you want to take a read, I'll link one of the chapters below. It'll take you to the full book on Apple Books.

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https://drive.google.com/file/d/1PbVmWntZY233qsQ42600QxnhFW1i2Les/view?usp=drive_link