Hi -- curious to hear opinions on this from sex workers and clients alike....

I've been using a "pro cuddling" site for a couple of years. Some of the encounters are totally platonic (but still mostly great) but there is definitely some secret sex work happening via those sites as well. In my small town, there aren't a lot of options, so I have to find SWers where I can...

I started chatting with a woman from the best-known cuddling site a few months ago....she's only in my town occasionally, so our schedules hadn't lined up for a meeting. On her next visit, logistics will be more convenient for both of us, so we booked a cuddle. (The site rules prohibit people from communicating outside the site until a session is booked.)

We exchanged numbers, and in her first texts to me she said she could incorporate massage into the session, and that part would be "clothing optional." Great! Without me asking any additional questions about her services, she texted me two screenshots from what was clearly her NSFW ad on some other site. The ad used the phrases "nuru bodywork" and "lingam massage." Again, great -- she's definitely providing services I'm interested in.

I was curious about her ad, so I googled the first sentence from the screenshot she sent me. That immediately led me to her escort ad on a well-known site. She had some more revealing pictures there, and some different pricing listed. Via text, she'd told me that her minimum for a cuddle session was 2 hours. Yet on her escort ad site, there was a 75 minute nuru session listed, at a lower price.

Here's where I maybe made a mistake? I thanked her for sending the screenshots, told her I was glad we were on the same wavelength. I admitted that I'd found her ad, complimented the very sexy photos on it, and inquired about the 75 minute offering listed there. I told her I would still be happy to do 2 hours if she now had that as a minimum, as I was still looking forward to meeting her.

It's now been 48 hours with no reply, and we'd been going back and forth pretty rapidly before then. It's pretty clear that I pissed her off -- but how?

Was googling to find her ad (and then admitting that I did) a mistake? After all, she didn't send me her URL -- just screenshots. But I didn't hire a private detective to find her ad -- I literally did one google of the very first sentence, and I found it. Was I not supposed to do that?

Or, was asking about the pricing on her ad the mistake? But again, I didn't insist on the lower pricing / shorter session as a requirement -- I just asked if it would be possible.

I don't really feel like I did anything wrong here, by very easily finding someone's public escort ad and then inquiring about the services/pricing listed on that ad. But I recognize I could be mistaken (and I think in her mind I did something I wasn't supposed to), so I welcome your opinions.