I’ve been doing SA for the past few months and my attitude on it at first was so idealistic; I was like, “I want to date a rich guy, I’m not a SWorker!” I wanted it to be like, I’d seek out guys I was genuinely attracted to, and the allowance was just the cherry on top. I figured that since I was genuinely into these guys and I was selective, it was different. The only problem is this is unsustainable as hell because the guys on SA are super challenging to date (personality problems, dick problems, scheduling problems, stingy as fuck, etc etc); hence why they are on SA in the first place! Plus, I would get emotionally invested, my feelings would get hurt, and I was constantly on the grind for a new and better arrangement because I needed the help and the money from this was never sufficient with just one SD. $500 for an overnight without protection, seriously? And if I wanted dinner they would deduct from the ppm. If I wanted my transportation comp’d they’d deduct. Nightmarish stuff. Wasn’t what I thought it’d be at all

So, I just made the decision to take the plunge to do SW. Researching it now so I can be prepared. I expect to feel much less emotionally invested and for the first time in months I think I will feel in control! Wish me luck y’all 😇