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Is it unrealistic to expect clients to get it right the first time?
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(Im UK Based) Im about to post an Ad for my services. To mitigate timewasters and filter out genuine prospects should I list on the ad “please introduce yourself in your first opening messaging using the preferred contacts (strictly no calls , text only) with your screening info, duration you would like, time and date, service, incall/outcall etc”

Or is this unrealistic? Should I allow them to just greet me first, politely introducing themselves and then go on to ask them screening. Because the matter of the fact is majority of these guys do not read and due to my area there are a lot of immigrants with poor english that will send the laziest and poorest communication like “hi” “location” or “available”. I am also sick of the “what do you offer?” Like sir, did you NOT just come off my ad to message me to which I responded within 5 minutes?? I literally dont even get it. You would this the whole point of the ad is to know where the provider is, her age, her ethnicity, what she offers for how much, but they message as if they’ve skipped over all that because they are just horny,desperate, illiterate clowns that just like the photo but miraculously forget how you look because then they have the CHEEK to ask for more pics!

As per my last post Im just tired of the shitty turnover I get responding to what seems like convincing timewasters who will screen and ask details only to go quiet as soon as I send my location which is soooo scary. ( I dont ever give exact location until they can prove and convince me they’re nearby ) and as per the responses I received I will minimise texts sent out completely - cut the bullshit. Cut the lengthy paragraphs they dont read anyways. Should they even be blocked for asking the price if it is CLEARLY described with extras listed aswell because they be asking me like they cant do basic maths 🤦🏾‍♀️?

Im definitely good at blocking TW and recognising them within the first 4 texts but I still get tired asf from repeating the information already on the ad… Im about to start adding a time tax E.g £100 if you screen perfectly and correctly £120 because you didn’t first contact using the asked method plus didnt come prepared knowing the basic information on the ad 😂

If you want to DM to talk about screening process feel free to message me because we can’t talk about that here with the lurkers

Also, clients please dont message me on reddit because I just delete them without thinking twice. I dont post on here to solicit. Thanks.

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