I just cant offer FS - for the market I am in Bunch of cheapos who take a mile if you give them an inch and it just isnt worth it. If I were able to successfully market myself as high end to the right market I would do it in a heartbeat for the right figure. I don’t even think my ads are the issue I think the city Im in just expects kitty cat for 100£ an hour and the thought of it is just🤮…

Bit of backstory - I always had resistance to offering FS for personal reasons. So I went into sensual/erotic massage. I also do cam and dance. Just any and everything to avoid being at my most vulnerable when it comes to clients however I still feel like client are very sleezy and want more than Im willing to sell. I just feel as if cam money does eventually add up but its too slow and there are so many timewasters and looky-loos who just disappear after I sent my details to be paid. whilst dancing for me is very physically and spiritually draining especially after a night Ive just broke even or worse left feeling like I could’ve made more if I had just stayed home offering massages. Its very hit or miss for me. The 20 experienced dancers will call making 700 a “shit night” whereas I get happy if I leave with £200 and even then - That is just not enough for what it is. The English Market is just BS. Is this a location issue (I dont live in london) but the next biggest city in the West Midlands.

This month I realised being a dominatrix is more suited to me because I have total control and essentially would be worshipped by men and get paid however I’m still not sure how to break into the industry. I try to educate myself as much as possible with blogs, reddit and youtube but when I posted an ad all I had were timewasters and you guessed it - boundary pushing idiots that are so digusting, disrespectful and cheap.

Whilst im still getting income offering erotic massage I do eventually want to domme because I feel it suits me and would be less mental strain than what I’m doing now - Im willing to learn from pros, do my research, train and get experience because I know being a domme is more than wearing latex and calling men bitches…

Anyone got any real advice for me, point me in the right direction, what platforms to advertise on , or just what I should do in general to mitigate this problem I would be so so grateful. Im even wondering if I need to solely work in London in order to start making some serious money because it just feels like I am in a perpetual cycle of breaking even and constantly using the money I made to just post more ads and then the rest of my money goes immediately to rent and bills lol. It hasnt felt very progressive in a HOT minute.

For anyone wondering I use Vivastreet to post ads because its quick and easy. Ive heard Fetlife and Adultworks may give me the clientele im sorting for Im just trying to set up my AW but it is definitely a hassle because the interface looks like something from the 90s - but apparently designed that way because old clients with the big money like it. So even if I get those set up im started from 0 I have plans to build my social media and OF platforms (all from 0) to gain credibility and I have already invested in the gartments and props in order to LOOK and FEEL the part , take loads of content to upload… Apologies my question is a bit all over the place lol I hope I wont be dragged for it I hope my main point is clear

What would you say the most lucrative form of SW is - That doesnt involve PIV that I can start immediately?

Thanks in Advance