Hi

I used Tryst.com and set up a meeting with an escort. First time doing anything remotely like this. We messaged via phone and agreed on length of time and price. She did a light screening process (name, employer) but no id or anything. I did some research and she had ads on multiple other sites recommended in this forum. She also had a social media presence going back several years (Twitter and Instagram - her insta was private but had lots of posts). She was traveling in my city.

When I got there I walked to the hotel room and we got down to business. It only took about a minute to realize this wasn’t for me. The escort had her own condom and was fairly professional (smelled good, clean room) but I could tell she really didn’t want to be there either. Then when she started to go down on me I just decided I couldn’t really do it. I apologized and told her to keep the money (paid cash) and sorry for wasting her time. Then left.

So I guess my questions are:

1. How worried do I have to be from a legal perspective? I followed the rules of this subreddit when looking for a safe provider.

2. We used a condom and she only performed oral on me for about 30 seconds - what are my chances of an std?

3. Do I disclose this to any future partners? I mean I feel like I have to.

I know these are all consequences that I should have thought through before and I thought I did but driving home it really hit home for me. And I’m sorry for this post but I’m really freaking the fuck out.