I’ve been dating my client for 5 months and he’s great. He cooks for me everyday, pays my rent, and cleans the apartment for me and helps either the cats (litter box cleaning, feeding times). Whenever I need him, he’s there, he does everything for me. I’ve never had a guy worship the ground I walk on until I met him.

I’ve never been happier but it took us 10 months of him booking with me for the feelings to come. Plus he’s spent nearly $30,000 on me in the time he was my client and still spends on me now. The fact that he invested in me makes me feel like he’s serious. Not bragging but I feel I have to justify myself bc dating clients is seen as bad in this group.

I know a lot of tricks think them booking a dinky little half hour appointment is going to make us want to date them, believe me I’ve had a lot of brokies ask to date me after ONE MEETING. Quite frankly I’m insulted when a client asks to date me after meeting once or twice as if I want to date an ugly man with poor sexual and social skills for free.

Once I hung out with a former client bc I was lonely for free but that’s it. He took me to dinner and we saw a movie but he ended up finding a gf and I didn’t see him again but I was happy for him.

Just want other sex workers thoughts on this and personal experiences.