I am writing this post for a very specific type of people. People who are still virgins or have the stigma towards sex workers. At whatever age you consider is too late. This is very subjective, for some people the pressure is on since they are 19-20 and for some people its just when they get married, even if it is until they are thirty. I now have lost mine and now I am 25. Also, I lost it to an Escort, a very expensive one. So let me start with how everything started. I moved to Australia when I was 19. Settling down in a new country is hard. I didn’t put in much efforts into getting into a relationship or getting laid. 3 years down the line when I was 23 I first thought about loosing it. I as any young person wanted to experience a bunch of things. I had never felt a proper touch of a woman. Had not even crossed first base with anyone. It came to a point where I had anxiety in me that if I be with someone now, and as I was so inexperienced, I would just ruin the whole thing and make it awkward. And at that time this thought of hiring someone “professional” came to my mind. Luckily I was in a country where sex work was legal so didn’t have to think about that. I had several choice to choose from. Australia has several brothels and many of them are extremely popular. Around the same time, I was working at a supermarket and there was a brothel(a very popular one) just across the street. The bar/café in that brothel used to call the supermarket to order stuff and one of the staff member usually would go and deliver. One fine day I went there do deliver couple of cartons of milk. This was the first time I had ever entered a brothel. The first instinct was to just deliver the milk and get the fuck out of there. But as the luck had it, I had to wait until someone brings me the money. As I scanned the main room, I saw bunch of girls, all in black lingerie standing in line and a customer sitting right in front of them. This made me extremely uncomfortable. I always had this notion about sex as being extremely intimate affair between two people and watching a customer choosing a girl like he is just buying a product made me sweat a bit. But a part of me was also wanting to be on that couch and be treated like a king. As I thought about it that day, I started reading about the sex work and why women do it. I always had a pre conceived notion that prostitution Is bad and mostly girls are trapped into doing it forcefully. But as I kept reading about sex work and women working in it(IN AUSTRALIA). I was taken aback. Most woman do it out of there own choice. I also understood that its just “sex” like it is with any other activity. The stigma around it was just in my head, and it was going away. Sure, it’s a very intimate thing, but if two consenting adults just want to do it just for money and pleasure, who am I to judge them. After all this, I ended up on a website on which all the independent escorts advertise and the good thing was, all the profiles were verified. The good thing about sex work legal in Australia is sex workers do not have to use fake profiles in fear of getting caught. Although a lot of them blur there faces but that is to just maintain there privacy. This was largely satisfactory to me. Now cutting down all the bullshit, In mid of 2024 I decided to take the big step and loose my ‘V’ card. The feeling got really strong because I had already been feeling lonely since a long time. I did not want to visit a brothel as I still wanted this to be intimate and not rushed. I checked out several profiles on the website and all of them were absolutely phenomenal. I narrowed down three profiles which I thought were right up my ally. After checking there profiles again and again I decided to contact one of them.

So gathering all the courage I text her(Lets call her Mia), explaining that I am a virgin and looking to spend 2 hours. It was a $1000 for two hours. In couple of hours I got a response. The reply couldn’t have been more professional, yet comforting. She was empathetic and understood what I really wanted. I was not looking to just have sex but to also have a memorable and comfortable experience. After few back and forth messages, we decided on a date and a time. It was 4 day to go and I booked a cute little apartment in the city to meet her. Now that I had taken the first step, I was even more nervous. Nervous about how would it go. Will it be worth it? Should I take something for her? Will I be any good? What if we start too early and I finish real fast and then there is time left, wouldn’t it get awkward? Should I take condoms? What condoms should I buy? and many more. As days passed, it was the day when I meet her. It was the day I would kiss someone for the first time, make love to someone for the first time and yes the sex, that would be a first too. I was going to meet her in the evening at around 5 p.m. I spent the whole day thinking about that two hours I would be spending with her. Its roughly 4 pm and I check into the apartment making sure everything is good. I quickly texted her about if there is anything specific she would like me to bring and Mia suggested to bring a bottle of wine and I did so. Now It was a waiting game. Around 5 p.m I get a text from her to get her up from the lobby. I quickly get out of the apartment and call the lift to go down. I was so nervous that I had to take 5 deep breaths in the lift to calm myself down. I quickly get out of the lift and rush towards the front door and there she was. I didn’t even look at her properly. I was so nervous and was thinking what should I do next. Reaching the apartment,We settle on the couch and I paid her fees in cash. This was the moment I looked at her face properly. She was gorgeous, drop dead gorgeous. I sat beside next to her but still there was some distance. She noticed that and sent me off to the kitchen to bring the wine. As I come back she had moved a bit closer to where I was sitting initially and as I sat again I immediately noticed that. I somehow shrugged trying to maintain that space but at the same time was super excited. She probably understood that and asked me bunch of questions about myself and slowly made me comfortable. We started chatting about all sorts of things including travel and so on. Half an hour had gone past and I was extremely comfortable now. It was like talking to a friend. She had an amazing skill of just making the conversation flow. She changed the topic to me booking the appointment. She said it was very courageous of me to book an escort and taking this step. I asked her if this was common and she said yes, many people choose to do it with an escort and it was completely natural. By this point she had her hand was on my thigh and I never noticed until she slowly started caressing it. We continued talking a bit as I explained her why I never had any sexual experience. As I was talking, she came close to me and slowly whispered in my ear, “can I kiss you?”. I said yes. And we started kissing. I will not go beyond this, but I had a wonderful experience where she led me through the entire thing very comfortably. I had the most pleasurable time ever and not just sexually but felt like a really intimate experience. Nothing was awkward. She knew how to teach, give and take pleasure for herself as well. I am much more confident now the stigma of sex is out of my mind. Yes sex is pleasurable and all of us have the right to feel it. I have gained massive respect for sex workers and it is the purest transaction you can ever make. No bullshit, both know what is expected and it should stay that way. It was worth an experience.