So forgive me for the newbie question, I’ve never done anything like this but I’m not a super freaky girl by nature - as in the things you would see in porn. I mean, I do have an interest in BDSM but that just goes back to being submissive. It would be awkward to do things with men I don’t really vibe with - like guys who are ‘freaky’ and hyper sexual or overly confident.

I understand that might be the majority of the industry though.

But for example, instead of dirty talk are there men who are into words of affection? My idea of a date is very gentle and doting.

It would be much easier cause I’ve always had a soft spot for “lonely” and quiet men. I feel like I’d be doing them an actual service and they’re actually my type anyway.

Is there much of a variety in the personality of the clients? I have a good sense of someone’s general vibe off the get go. Is it a fantasy to cater to only a specific set of men?