I’m in a relatively new relationship. He knew I was a FSSW initially, but I quit bc I personally don’t like dating when I’m working. Things have been progressing sweetly. He’s given me complete trust, and I have no reason not to trust him. But he’s a success businessman and to me, I get nervous every time he’s out with his bosses. I imagine that scene from Wolf on Wall Street. Loll I mean, we have all seen it. We’ve lived it. Successful meeting/promotions/whatever business men do followed with > hiring strippers, trip to the “spa” etc. He is one of those guys who is honestly so charming that he will leave the strip club having spent little to nothing, with the girl’s phone numbers. He met his last girlfriend that way. He has never paid for sex. And he’s not even an over-sexual person. Idk whyyyy I get nervous about this. I think I’ve just seen that side of men and can’t fathom any man would be faithful. I have not told him I’d rather him not do those things so even if he has, I guess I can’t be mad. But I think it’s a given since we agreed to be exclusive.