Question for the ladies that use multiple apps and formats to communicate.

How to keep up with the back and forth?

I had sent an introduction to a lady via email as requested. She then tells me to text. I responded accordingly. Even added my phone # in the email to put the conversation on text for her to know who is who.

The text conversation and email conversation ran parallel and got us nowhere. She said to verify we needed to FaceTime and flash her my 🍆 so she knows I'm not LE. On both formats. So I responded with let me know when and how you wanted to verify, I have these options for vid chat.

I sent my LinkedIn and even had a reference for her as an alternative by her own request and still got no response. Screenshot showing text with reference granting permission. She goes right back into the flash session statement. With no response to my when? How?

Over 8 days I asked how she wanted to vid and when by her request for screening 5 separate times after she would reach out to me. Never got a reply but got all kinds of nonsense about safety and privacy etc. She completely ignored her own request for screening. It literally would have taken 3 minutes.

Long story short, she would never respond with a time or date. So I politely declined going forward since we hadn't been on the same page and I wasn't comfortable with someone so unorganized. I moved on and was able to verify and deposit for my two nights with a provider that was organized and engaged in our appointment. Then she wants to be ugly and call me names as if it's my fault she's terribly unorganized. She ghosted me and I truly tried to be patient and understanding, but 8 days and you can't take three minutes to do your own verification, even while text conversation is occuring? And I offered up two other ways per her request. Had to pass.