Hey all, my wife and I (M40 and F35)visited a strip club recently and got some dances from a really fantastic woman. A little background, my wife would like to "mess around" with another woman with me involved of course. She's not in dire need of this but her attitude is more like if it happens it happens. The girl we got private dances from was fun, and her and my wife were getting a little handsy with each other which was fine by me. And my wife really enjoyed it. After the dance we talked a bit and the dancer asked if we had ever had a threesome, and my wife said no. The dancer said "you hadn't found the right one yet" The dancer then told my wife and I to come back and see again her again and when we did, for my wife to wear a dress and no underwear. My wife and I took these as subtle hints. We plan on going back to see her as we felt the vibe and super comfortable with her. My questions are, what would be the best way to approach her for an outside of the club meet? We'd hate to ask a wrong way and her not be an escort. We're scared to insult her if she's not that type and was just flirty and into us. Any advice on how to approach this would be great. Thanks.