I’m nonbinary but present girly and read female all the time.

When I was younger I got top surgery(double mastectomy, chest is flat with big nipples and scars but looks buff and great tbh), for many reasons but partly as a way to make it harder to do SW which I wasn’t enjoying at the time.

Now, I feel way more comfortable with myself(I got a lot hotter in other ways) and like I would be much better at the business but I keep tripping up on how to advertise myself or explain to clients in my Small City that Yes, I AM a bubble butt latina with a tiny waist and tattoos but Oops no breast tissue whatsoever.

I’m not really FTM, I don’t read as a boy or want to do anal. I’m wondering if I should just try domming at first and not necessarily show my chest.

Should I pretend I had cancer? That seems like more of a turn off. Do I have to explain my ~gender journey~ to everyone? Do I just charm clients with my perfect ass and winning smile? Is a hole a hole and nobody will really care? I feel like boobs are a big part of the equation for most clients lol.

I can’t conceptualize what to do and it’s keeping me from taking pics or posting ads. I know as an alternative trans person of any type I will make less $ than others, but there are so few people with my particular gender situation anywhere, much less in SW.

Every NB in-person worker I know still has tits, and has a more androgynous look.