Hey all!

So recently i’ve been speaking with this guy. We did a cash meet (findom) and that was fine. He was super nervous but that was only minor hitch.

Fast forward to today - i’ve attached the messages - he’s trying to arrange a meet but he is really messing about with it. We finally get to the stage of him paying a deposit and it takes him an hour to answer my message about payment methods.

He mentions it’s his birthday and he’s having a party so he wants me to come over when everyone has left, subsequently I ask if he’s been drinking. He says yes and lists multiple spirits. I tell him the meet is off and he replies by asking if I want to come over and drink with him.

Please tell me I’m not in the wrong for telling him I won’t meet him now I know he’s been drinking, and there’s still 4 hours until our meet would be due to take place!! I feel awful because it’s his birthday and he’d been saving for a while but it’s pretty obvious a meet can’t happen safely if one party is trolled!