Hey there. I'm a 32m that's been on a 3 year dry spell and I decided to break it. I've read the pinned post but I'm still having issues. I'm from a popular city area and have checked a few different sites but I feel like I'm running into the same issues. I've yet to be "screened" and just get pressured to give more after the initial deposit usually saying they need to pay for their hotel. I've been trying to book in advance, have the correct opening message, not being explicit or asking for free pics, etc. I just dont want to keep making initial appointments and then losing my deposit. I don't know what I'm doing wrong or if I'm just finding scammers.

Second part question: I've seen posts for "new Asian girls" and they have decent prices and seem to have multiple locations. The ads say they're an agency and accept cash only. I'm just concerned about not knowing who I'm going to actually meet and if this is a normal practice or a red flag.

I just dont have anyone to ask questions about this to and would like a little help navigating this new area.