I’m in a rt group on Twitter right….and the girls are open sexually and this one girl said her and her man caught an std from some girl they had a threesome with

I was taken aback at how candid she was about it

Maybe a day later someone bought up “sw” and everyone was up in arms like “nooooo I could neeever do thaaaat” “I’d be scaaaaared someone gonna hurt meeee” “I can’t chaaaaarge for it” and it made me think …well I was already thinkin this and this scenario solidified it that we have different “fears” …

As sw I think overall we take health a little more seriously and the “danger” aspect we take precautions but not scared enough to not go through working entirely

These girls I feel fear danger of a man more than stds

When I’m with my “square content partner/photographer/videographer” I use my sw rules with him and I feel he’s not used to them Like no bare anything including bbj and don’t go down on me and don’t use your saliva as lube (when they wet their finger and wanna finger u)

Sigh I just had to get that out because hearing them just cool wit getting stds just for the sake of being freaky … but appalled at a sex worker and being condescending about THAT is …sigh…this is why I can’t deal with vanilla people too much ….