So last week was my first time with a provider. I was uncomfortable with the transactional nature of what I was doing initially, communicated that, and went out of my way to ensure she was comfortable during our time together in response. She does this part time, is independent, and we’re the same age. I booked an hour, which we spent talking. Two hours go by, we’re still talking and connecting. Anyway I told her she was welcome to make herself at home for as long as she liked and our session ended up being about four hours. Before she left she told me she’s never hung out like that with a client and she really wanted to see me again. She asked me how I felt about the prospect of a relationship and if I would be comfortable dating a provider. I was floored. I like to think I treated her better than she’s been treated previously, there was a mutual connection and attraction, and she’s being genuine. I never asked for GFE, she went out of her way to start the kissing, etc. That said, I don’t know if it’s part of the hustle…have any of you ever become “involved” with clients on a deeper level before?

To follow up, she texted me the next morning from her personal number and gave me her full name. We chatted over the weekend and she came by last night again. I got her flowers, nothing huge, but flowers nonetheless. We had a blast, donation never came up, and the sex was incredible. She didn’t spend the night but asked to come by again later today and if she could bring stuff to overnight. I sent her a donation this morning because I value her time, and she seemed confused but was appreciative. Should I roll with this and see where it goes? Am I excluding the possibility of a genuine friendship or relationship by paying her? I could use some guidance.