Hey, so im not relly into paying for sex... just ganna put that right up front.

However, I'm also super picky about women and have turned down some cute ones... and then get a little stupid on dating apps when I get horny. It's too erratic.

On top of that, I've gotten too jaded in how I react to women.

So I've come to the conclusion that all around, It would help me to pay for a womens time both to avoid erratic horny moments, to keep my libido high (I can go for literal hours) and to keep me fresh on how to treat a lady so I can be picky AND polite.

Thing is... most the girls I see want like 400 an hour... I make comfortable money but not 400 a week for just 1 hour of entertainment money....

I also usually cant orgasm in under a minute, and if I'm paying for it then I'm sure as shit going to aim for my own orgasm (normally I'm spending a few hours because I'm also focusing on the girls pleasure).

ALSO ALSO, I don't want to get stds.

So I know I should avoid the generally cheap girls, sorry not sorry but there's usually a reason they are cheap... right? like they may be druggies who are desperate or such, or diseased.

I live in califoria, there's a few sites girls post listings and I've STARTED exploring that... but also I'm worried about cap luring.

its a whole new thing I'm trying to navigate, would love some guidance (please don't be cliche, condescending, or patro(matro?)nizing)