Okay, so first of all I will confess that I don’t really understand what FBSM is exactly. But I see it advertised as an option on Tryst and from other posts I’ve searched for on here, it seems to be fairly common for it to involve a fairly standard massage (sometimes on a massage table, sometimes on a bed) in which the provider sometimes wears lingerie, sometimes is topless, and sometimes is naked.

Toward the end of the session, it seems to be common for there to be some kind of sexual release. In most cases this seems to be a handjob, but in some cases it is a blowjob or even PIV(?????). The only thing that seems to be categorically off the table is kissing….and if PIV were involved it would be like the provider putting a condom on the client and straddling him, not letting him lead the process. Is that right?

Okay, so in addition to just being corrected on any of the above that I got wrong, here are my questions:

1. What are “mutual touch” massages? Is this where you randomly grope the provider’s body while they are massaging you on the table? (If so….why? I’m imagining being face down with my head in that little donut thing and then randomly throwing my arms out to grab a butt….is that what it’s like?)

Or do they get in bed with you and cuddle you and rub your neck and shoulders while you are welcome to touch them back? (This seems more natural and fun, but also maybe venturing away from massage….)

1. Similarly — what is a “body slide”? If I’m understanding correctly, it’s where the provider lubricates their own body as well and….slides it over you? But, again, is this just them hovering over you while you’re on the table? Or is this more like where you’re both lying down and embracing each other?

2. I can only find info on FBSM where the client is a guy. What would be the typical “happy ending” for a female client? Would the provider finger you?

Sorry if these are dumb questions! I have only ever had regular therapeutic massages and so and I am finding it really difficult to picture what a pro sensual massage looks like in practice.

I do understand that it probably varies a lot, but if anyone can give me insights into what they do or have had done, that would help!

Thanks!