I’m a 25 year old dude, and I’m embarrassed to say I’m still a virgin. At this point it’s getting awkward to tell someone that, and frankly I’m afraid most women would think there’s something wrong with me if I told them that. I’ve thought about hiring a sex worker before and I’ve looked through the advice on this subreddit about how to go about that.

I’m kind of at a bit of a roadblock though. I don’t want to say where I live for obvious reasons but suffice it to say I live several hours from anything that could be considered a major city and there really just aren’t that many listings on trusted websites near my location. Most of those that exist are either kind of sketchy, or really just not what I’m looking for. I’m not looking for just a quick bang and then done. I’m looking for someone who could actually show me the ropes so to speak, so I won’t embarrass myself if I ever manage to work up the nerve to actually take a girl out again and things get farther than just a date.

To make matters worse I’m unable to drive myself anywhere and there’s really not good public transport where I live. I’m not really sure I’d like to bring an escort to my house, and I’m sure most escorts don’t like to meet up at a private residence without knowing their client first. Not really sure what to do about that one.

Any advice would be appreciated. Sorry if this is a rehash of frequently asked stuff but I’ve really looked around for any advice and I’m not seeing anything that fits my situation.