My guess would be that most “couples” sessions are threesomes where both members of the couple are engaged with the provider at the same time — or, at least, one of them is watching while the other two engage with each other. Is that right? Do providers ever get other requests from clients for a couples session?

I’m basically wondering if it would be acceptable to have a couples session in which we book ~3 hours with a provider but don’t spend all that time together. First half hour or so is chatting all together, maybe some makeouts. Then my partner and I would each spend some time alone with the provider while the other plays Candy Crush or whatever in the next room (or goes for a walk, or takes a long bath, or whatever they want). Then we’d all maybe have a little group cuddle at the end and part ways.

Is that a bizarre request? 🫣

Part of me thinks “why not?” And part of me thinks maybe I’m being naive about the relative difficulty of entertaining two people sequentially versus at the same time….or that perhaps it would be uncomfortable for the provider because she wouldn’t be able to have eyes on both of us at the same time? I don’t know, that’s why I figured I should ask here. 😆

Thanks for all your guidance! This sub is amazing.