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What am I doing wrong?
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Help me please!

So I recently had a great first-time experience with a sex worker and Iā€™m hoping to see her again, but also hoping to book some other ladies as well.

The trouble is, Iā€™m not getting any responses to my other inquiries and I canā€™t figure out why. I really need to figure out what Iā€™m doing wrong because itā€™s not like there are tons of women who offer services to other women ā€” and especially when I narrow it down by age, location, price range, and whose website/social media intrigues me, Iā€™m only looking at a few possibilities and I canā€™t figure out how Iā€™m f-ing this up.

So can someone tell me what Iā€™m doing wrong in my approach?

Hereā€™s a basic template of my communication:

*Hi [escortā€™s first name],

My name is [my first name] and I live in [local city]. I am [age] and a mom of two. I am a queer woman, but I have limited experience with other women and I am hoping to change that. I see from your [ad/website/professional social media] that you are open to seeing solo women clients.

[Usually here is where I also mention some other personal detail or connection to something they said on their ad/social media to show that I paid attention and read all their infoā€¦.nothing scandalous, just a shared interest, or if Iā€™m requesting a longer session maybe a mention of the fact that I also love xyz restaurant and would love to take her thereā€¦.]

I know you travel frequently ā€” will you be in [our local city] during January and/or February? If so, I would love to get on your calendar for a [# of hours] incall. Fridays work great for me, but my schedule is flexible if that doesnā€™t work for you.

I look forward to hearing from you and am happy to provide whatever verification information you require.

Thank you for your time and consideration, [my name]*

Also, if you all can tell me what Iā€™m doing wrong ā€” do you think I can/should try again with the folks who havenā€™t responded? Or if they havenā€™t responded, is that a hard no? I canā€™t figure out if no response means ā€œtake your business elsewhereā€ or if it means ā€œthe date/time/something else about your message doesnā€™t work for me, but you can try again later.ā€

PS ā€” The ladies Iā€™m sending this to either donā€™t have specific verification instructions or donā€™t state that they need verification info to be provided in the initial email, which is why Iā€™m not providing it up front and am waiting for them to let me know what they need from me.

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