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Help me please!
So I recently had a great first-time experience with a sex worker and Iām hoping to see her again, but also hoping to book some other ladies as well.
The trouble is, Iām not getting any responses to my other inquiries and I canāt figure out why. I really need to figure out what Iām doing wrong because itās not like there are tons of women who offer services to other women ā and especially when I narrow it down by age, location, price range, and whose website/social media intrigues me, Iām only looking at a few possibilities and I canāt figure out how Iām f-ing this up.
So can someone tell me what Iām doing wrong in my approach?
Hereās a basic template of my communication:
*Hi [escortās first name],
My name is [my first name] and I live in [local city]. I am [age] and a mom of two. I am a queer woman, but I have limited experience with other women and I am hoping to change that. I see from your [ad/website/professional social media] that you are open to seeing solo women clients.
[Usually here is where I also mention some other personal detail or connection to something they said on their ad/social media to show that I paid attention and read all their infoā¦.nothing scandalous, just a shared interest, or if Iām requesting a longer session maybe a mention of the fact that I also love xyz restaurant and would love to take her thereā¦.]
I know you travel frequently ā will you be in [our local city] during January and/or February? If so, I would love to get on your calendar for a [# of hours] incall. Fridays work great for me, but my schedule is flexible if that doesnāt work for you.
I look forward to hearing from you and am happy to provide whatever verification information you require.
Thank you for your time and consideration, [my name]*
Also, if you all can tell me what Iām doing wrong ā do you think I can/should try again with the folks who havenāt responded? Or if they havenāt responded, is that a hard no? I canāt figure out if no response means ātake your business elsewhereā or if it means āthe date/time/something else about your message doesnāt work for me, but you can try again later.ā
PS ā The ladies Iām sending this to either donāt have specific verification instructions or donāt state that they need verification info to be provided in the initial email, which is why Iām not providing it up front and am waiting for them to let me know what they need from me.
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