Another question from me, the female first-time client with all the questions.

I want to bring a few items to the date — nothing huge just a change of clothes, stick of deodorant, toothbrush and toothpaste, a gift for her, the donation of course,….and someone on here recommended bringing your own safer sex products and lube just to be conscientious and prepared. I figure I should probably bring a vibrator I know I like and, I don’t know, why not, maybe I’d bring a harness in case she has a dildo she wants to be fucked with? (Is that weird? I really have no idea what to expect, so I basically figure I should throw in every sexual item I own, just to be prepared, and have clothes for both during and after the date. If there’s one thing I learned from Girl Scouts, it’s to always have an extra change of socks and be prepared for anything.)

Anyway, my point is….all of it would probably fit in my backpack, but is it creepy to show up at her door with a zipped up backpack? I don’t want her to worry I have a weapon or something. Should I use a more open tote bag instead? or is that equally unsettling?