Background. I used to be be an operational security trainer in my active duty military days. Part of the job was progessional cyberstalker / open source intelligence gatherer. When I am contemplating meeting a provider, I do the obvious and google their number/email, etc. When I have a meet I pay attention to details. This has lead to some confusion on my part. Some cases in point:

1- hotel played a welcome "providers' real name" message on the in room TV on her incall

2- Google search on work number lead to providers RW facebook page and identity

3- Amazon wish lists show RW name and city on gift address, which is easily enough to find someone

As a provider, would you appreciate having these things pointed out, or should I just keep my damn mouth shut? I don't want to freak anyone out, I am probably the least creepy client out there, but I feel like when I do see these things I want to make sure the provider knows before someone with bad intentions finds the same thing.

If there is a way to let someone know without being creepy and scaring them, how? Or should I just not?