My husband and I always end date night at the club. We have been to this same club a few times, and had a couple encounters with a particular dancer.

Our second encounter was a private lap dance for the two of us. My first experience in a private lap dance. She asked her limits (if he was watching or participating, etc) and I told her anything was game.

Everything seemed to be going okay until about half way through. Then she started telling my husband to grab her tits and ass, as he was only touching me. He would touch her for a second and then stop. At one point she aggressively said “why aren’t you touching my tits, I have them in your face for a reason” then looked at me and said “damn, he must really love you, because I ain’t gettin none of it.”

This happened a few weeks ago and I can’t stop wondering if this is normal practice or if she was being pushy. And if it’s not normal, why could she have acted this way?