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I’ve had several and I mean several clients regulars over the last year flex things and offer them when I needed, offer to help with money, and when it comes down to it completely act like they never said that or just ghost me and what s few weeks then act surprised when I call them out.
Examples if you have a plane and offer to fly me somewhere if I ever need it and my grandmother is dying and I ask for a ride to see her and you mysteriously get busy for a month fuck you. If you offer to front me visit money for a new car and I text about it and you act like you don’t know who I am fuck you. If you offer to rent me your Airbnb and I ask and you’re no where to be found fuck you.
I could go on and on. We have so many people in our lives who let us down on the daily and if it’s just a flex don’t offer it to us. We are human we don’t want to use you. Or the good ones of us don’t but when we are in a bind and we’ve proven ourselves and you act like you can’t believe I’d actually take you up on your offer wtf? I see men on here bitch about us how we should give stellar service and why are we burnt out well this is a reason. We are sick of being flaked on when it comes down to do. We are giving you what you can’t find without us. We are there when you need your dick wet and doing a damn good job. Have some respect for us. There are good ones out there who value you and give 110% every time and some of you just treat us like crap.
I know I’m venting to the choir but please just be kind to us. None of us want to be here I don’t think even y’all do but here we are. It’s a job it’s a need so let’s be kind to each other.
Stop relying on these men for anything outside of your contracted hours. They do not fully see our humanity most of the time and your needs are not sexy to most of them. They do not benefit sexually from helping with your needs and that is literally all they care about.
I can’t tell you how many times when it was my birthday what I wanted and didn’t get it. Like reasonable things. But they got what they wanted to give me. Or when I said what I wanted j didn’t get anything. I let one client pay me in gift cards. I’ve been very clear which ones he tried to get me to take a Southwest Airlines gift card. I’m like no. Wtf
If I’m seeing someone weekly for over a year and you have always said ask xyz and I ask and then you’re shook I would ask it’s a different story. I’ve been doing this 5 years. Full time for a year. But I’m officially burnt out. No one gets extra from me anymore. Bc if you’re gonna flex and not show for it then adios.
We all bust our ass. What’s your deal? This isn’t a strip club to hate eschother at. Be nice.
Sorry but I don’t fake my relationships with them. Thats why I make the money I do. If you’re bitter go be bitter somewhere else. Im amazing at my Job and have amazing clients but I know lots of clients get on here so I’m here to help them not make the mistake of the asshats I see. Im not just a sw and im not gullible.
Entitlement? When you’ve seen someone weekly for a year and they tell you something over and over and you finally ask how is that entitlement.
Yeah it’s disappointing seeing a lot of these women be really bitter and jealous. There are a lot of us who have amazing clients who do offer amazing treatment. I think a lot of these bitter ones clearly don’t get it. I don’t believe all my clients but my regulars mostly come through anytime I need something. I’m just listing a few things and this ain’t even for the sw this is for clients who might see this. Just do better.
So you’re jealous. Could have just said that. There are many levels of sw and sorry you don’t fall on the side I’m on but no need to hate on me.
Stop relying on these men for anything outside of your contracted hours. They do not fully see our humanity most of the time and your needs are not sexy to most of them. They do not benefit sexually from helping with your needs and that is literally all they care about.
I know there are good guys out there. Hoping this reaches some of them and maybe the assholes too
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I know there are good guys out there. Hoping this reaches some of them and maybe the assholes too